A Letter to the Deep Mothers
For the ones who can’t just say, “let’s exchange flowers and say Happy Mother’s Day, and call it a good one."
For those of you who through motherhood, have finally unearthed your longing for something more true and more connected for yourselves and for your families.
For the ones who open these emails expecting a message that resonates with you beyond the level of practical advice, and feels like an embrace from one mother’s soul to another’s.
On empathy and activism as parents
Do you wonder how to help our children to make sense of the suffering of our world, and our particular agency and responsibilities to each other as fellow humans?
After years of supporting parents like you, who want to help their children make sense of the world’s injustices through a lens of love, humanity and justice…I want to share two important things that matter a lot in order for our kids to be able to do this.
The one thing kids need most: Listening that feels like love
Listening with understanding means we listen in a way that finds the other person’s words or behavior entirely understandable, regardless of how much we actually understand it in our heads. Here’s how to do it.
What is a home that heals?
What if the problem was just as much about the culture of healing that was lacking in our childhood homes, as it was about the actual wounding that we experienced there?
Being your child’s “person”
Enjoy the deep connection with our children that so many of our parents missed out on with us.
When you need to fall apart
It’s not your job to never crumble as a parent. Here’s how to help your family through the really hard times.
Choice & “the holidays”
Old traditions can make us forget that we have the choice to create. What new stories are you writing for your family?
Terrified of the dark, and terrified to ask for help
Your parenting overwhelm may have surprising roots.
Let me tell you about this great Mom
It’s not about being perfectly healed for our children
I didn’t wait until my child was “ready” to wean
I did what I needed to do, and I did it well